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That’s Why Your Single.

February 14, 2011

With Valentines Day finally upon us and amor filling the air many single women may find themselves wondering, why am I still single? As much as I hate to admit it, every time I see a couple walk past me holding hands and giving each other those googly love eyes I wonder, hmmm when will that be me? Everyone wants love or to be in love, its human nature to pair up so why does it seem so hard for NYC women to find a man to start a life with. According to an article I read in The Huffington Post, it’s our own fault. Yes, men you read that right, it’s actually us and not you. The reason why many women remain single or marry mister wrong comes down to a few major points. Ready ladies, take notes!

  • Stop being a bitch. Okay so you’ve dated every loser imaginable and feel emotionally drained by all the lies and let downs. Well the next guy doesn’t care about all that, so taking out your anger on him only keeps him moving. Your probably thinking, but I don’t hold grudges. Yes you do. If you roll your eyes or make a gagging sound when you see couples involved in pda or almost start to hate your best friend on the day of her wedding then you ma’am are one angry bitch. You may not see it, but men can read it miles away. Men like women who smile, are bubbly and generally in good mood. Walking around looking like your about to pull out an AK-47 and go Rambo on someone doesn’t make him want to ask for your number.
  • Stop being a slut. Hooking up casually is great, but not if you are looking to get married. No man who sleeps with you on the 1st date is thinking, wow I can’t wait to introduce her to mom. Just because the guy your sleeping with keeps coming around and text’s all the time does not mean you are dating. If you have never gone out to dinner, a movie, been seen in public together or only speak after 10pm, you are strictly a booty call. Being more selective about who you sleep with doesn’t allow your hormones to confuse a marriage material guy for one whose only in it to hit it.
  • You are not Good Enough. Alert, Alert…It’s not about always you!! Men want to be with someone who doesn’t always talk or think about themselves. Seriously how many times can one man hear about how much you hate your thighs and how you wish your eyes were blue instead of brown. Fishing for compliments is pathetic ladies, and yes that even applies to your Facebook statuses and tweets. Confidence is sexy, and a woman who knows she is good enough just as she is will not be on the market long. No matter how stressful work is, or what dress size you are, always know that you are good enough just as you are right now. When you know it, men know it too. Men marry women for their character, not her cup size. How can you expect anyone else to love when you don’t love yourself?

Here at GAI (www.gunwel.com) we would love to hear your thoughts and share youre advice on finding love. Already found someone and heading towards the aisle? Let us help keep the bliss by handling all your financial needs. While money can’t buy love, it sure can put a strain on it. Planning a life together is stressful enough, let us alleviate all fiscal headaches so you have more time for amor. So stop by or give us a call at 212-979-6830. We are open Monday-Friday 8am-8pm and Saturdays 8am-5pm.

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